Breaking Free from Heartbreak Addiction

One of the first things to go when we’re in heartbreak is our diet. We will do anything to feel better, and that includes eating all the foods we know are bad for us. Even when we know the after-effects will be undesirable, we just can’t help it. We’re wired for pleasure. But there is a way to recover and heal by breaking free from heartbreak addiction through the foods you eat.

I did it.

My go-to feel better food was sugar. I now know that it’s an addiction, but back then, all I could do to feel better was start on the sugary food, the chai latte’s, the occasional dark chocolate (that’s supposed to be healthy right?). I would binge on desserts before I ate food. I would eat cake and cookies late at night. I would convince myself that dried fruit was a healthy snack but found out that they are like candy. Then I would throw the occasional salad in there somewhere to convince myself I was eating healthily.

Why do we do it?

We do it to numb. The feelings of sadness are sometimes too great, and all we want to do is not feel bad.

Some of the more common numbing foods include:

– wine (red)

– chocolate

– ice cream

– cookies

– sugary drinks

– creamy hot drinks

We also do this because we want to feel happy again. Our feel-good neurotransmitters tend to decline when we are in heartbreak grief. These neurotransmitters; oxytocin, serotonin, dopamine helps us feel good but are also crucial for keeping us healthy.

The foods listed above give us a quick fix good feeling with the sugar intake. But this over time can cause hormone imbalance and severe health problems.

When you eat sugar of any kind this causes of blood sugar imbalance. Low blood sugar can cause a drastic change in your mood. When your blood sugar drops, you become hungry, irritable, lack concentration, and you start to crave carbs to increase your serotonin production. And the vicious cycle repeats.


  1. Start your day with 20 grams of protein. Protein slows down the rate of sugar absorption in the blood, and this ensures your body gets what it needs in a balanced way.
  2. Eat something every few hours to avoid any spikes in blood sugar levels.
  3. Eat some protein with each meal and snack.
  4. Reduce or eliminate sugary drinks and snacks.
  5. Replace the “white” stuff (white bread, white pasta, white rice) with whole grains.


Probiotics help our gut microbiome stay balanced. We have good bacteria, and harmful bacteria and our body is continually trying to keep things in balance.  Probiotics aid our gut by promoting this balance. More importantly, there is tons of research to show that our gut health dictates our mental health.

We now know that 80% of our neurotransmitters are produced in the gut. So, if we are eating foods that create an imbalance of harmful bacteria (such as Candidiasis) via sugary foods, we guarantee a low production of our happy neurotransmitters. This ensures that we’ll continue to feel unhappy.

But when we eat foods that promote good bacteria and eat probiotic food and supporting supplements, you help your gut produce those happy neurotransmitters.


– Greek yogurt

– kefir

– sourdough bread

– kimchi

– miso

– sauerkraut

– chutneys

– kombucha

– probiotic supplements

Eating foods high in sugar is something we all do more often than you think. It has become an epidemic because we are all in heartbreak to some degree. Sugar is the greatest quick fix addiction that our society has. But over time, it can cause more severe health issues, as we see with diabetes and other autoimmune diseases.

To avoid this, start eating foods that are guaranteed to make you feel good. By practicing good eating habits and picking those foods that promote a healthy gut, you can break free from heartbreak addiction. By helping your body produce happy neurotransmitters, you help your body recover.



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